No one wants to have their heart broken, that muсh is for sure. But sometimes we end up staying in a relationship far longer than we should. In the end it leaves both people pretty miserable or, even worse, it can lead one person on into thinking that everything is fine in the relationship even when it is not. If you have been feeling that something is not quite right in your relationship, then maybe you should have a long hard think if the relationship is still for you. Here are a few signs that you should think about ending your relationship.
You Do Not Want To Spend Time With Them
Staying late at work doing “busy” jobs just so you do not have to go home and see them. Or going on long detours, hitting the stores, hanging out with friends, sitting in a bar or whatever it is. No matter what you are doing if you are looking for ways to not be with them, then why are you still with them?
You Want Your Own Space
The old saying “I just need a little space right now” is just a huge red flag that the relationship you are in is not working anymore. Granted sometimes a person will have a little space and realize that they want the relationship to work, but in most cases they want the space so they do not have to be around their partner.
The Future Does Not Look All That Great
When you look forward say five years into your relationship, do you see a new house or apartment, maybe a kid running around, fun family holidays and other good things? Well if the answer is no and all you see is more of the same or you being miserable then why stay in a relationship where you do not see a happy future?
You Do Not Trust Them
Trust is just as important as love is in a relationship. And if you are at the stage where you do not trust them to be away from you, hanging out with their friends or you suspect they are cheating on when they are at work, then the relationship, I am sorry to say, is doomed. Without trust your relationship has nothing and keeping it limping along is only going to hurt both people in the long run.
Someone Has Cheated
Cheating does not always signal the end of a relationship, but it is very hard to get things back to the way they were. In most cases a person cheats because they feel something is missing in the relationship. Of course in other cases people cheat because they are just no good and have zero consideration for other people. Either way, cheating is a clear indication that something is very wrong in the relationship.
You Lie About Amazing Your Relationship is
We all tell little white lies, but when you constantly have to tell lies to your friends and family about how wonderful things are not only just to convince them, but yourself also, then the relationship, I am sorry to say, needs to end. Also if you never talk about your other half to those friends and family who know how unhappy you really are, then that is also a clear indication that you are not in a healthy relationship.
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