Men! Let’s face it sometimes they can be really hard to read and many of them are not exactly great at letting us know how they feel or where we stand with them. Here are a few tips for you to look for that signal you matter to him.
He Shares His Favorite Things With You
While you may roll your eyes when he wants to take you to a sporting event or his favorite pizza parlor, chances are he is doing this because he really cares about you and he wants to share the things that he loves with you. I am not saying you need to fake and pretend you love the things that he does. He just wants you to be a part of his universe and this is why he wants you to see all of the things that mean a world to him.
You’re his Plus 1
Let’s say he gets invited to a wedding, a friends party, a work related event and other important occasions. Are you the first person he calls and asks to go out with him? Granted, your persona is of the greatest importance to him to say the least. More, he’s probably secretly proud of you as a couple, and wanna people green with envy.
He Watches What You Want To Watch
You know that he really is into you when he is willing to sit down on the sofa with you and watch a show that in a few years into your relationship he will admit he just absolutely hates with a passion. If he also is willing to make an effort to go and see movies that you specifically want to see then he is doing this to make you happy because he wants to stay with you!
He Makes An Effort With Your Friends
Let’s face it deep down we all know that going out with you and all your girlfriends is an absolute nightmare evening scenario for him. But if he is willing to do this, and actually go above and beyond to be not only nice to your friends, but also get to know them a little bit as well. Then, he is doing this because he knows that your friends are important to you and he has to convince your friends to accept him at the very least .
He Stays In Touch
Now we are not talking about stalking you with a million texts daily trying to take control over you. But if he is calling and texting you just to check in and say hello and see how you are doing, then you are certainly on his mind a great deal, and he is definite about his choice to be with you!
You Are Brought Into His Inner Circle
This one actually in most relationships comes after he has introduced his favorite places and things to you! Anyway, if he is making it a point to introduce you to his friends, work colleagues, and most importantly his family, then he clearly sees you as an irreplaceable part of his life. When he takes you to meet his parents over the wekend then you know tying the knot someday soon is on his mind.