Being in a relationship is great and if things are going really well then you are probably starting to get the feeling that the two of your should give living together a try. Living together can make a relationship even more special or it can make you both see that really you’re not compatible with each other, either way it will make you see your relationship for what it really is. If any of the things below sound familiar in your relationship then it very well may be time to give living together a shot.
1: You do not care at all when you first wake up and that he can see you without your best face on. If you have no worries at all about them seeing you first thing in the morning in all your natural glory, then you are clearly very comfortable with them.
2: You are comfortable with their parents and family. If you are cool with their parents and have no worries about being left alone with them for ten minutes here or there. Or you do not worry about answering the phone when they call and having to chat with them. Then this is a sign that you are clearly ready to share your lives together.
3: You really enjoy being together and really miss them when you are alone in your home. You are not sad because you are lonely, but you are sad because they are not with you. If you feel like this then moving in together is well worth a shot.
4: You can see far into the future. If this is the case then rush out and buy a lottery ticket. I kid, I kid, but being serious even if a few years down the road things do not work out. If right now you feel like they are the one and that you can see yourself with them for the rest of your life then you really owe it to yourselves to give it a try.
5: You spend more time at their place than you do your own anyway! Of course this one works the other way as well if they are spending more than say 3 nights a week at your place then you two are pretty much already living together anyway. So you may as well take the plunge and go for it!
6: You share chores even though you do not live together. If at your place for example he always washes the dishes or vacuums the living room floor, or if at his place you throw his laundry in the washer, then you two are already sharing chores that a couple who live together do. Why have chores in two different houses?
7: You two are more than comfortable talking about your financial situations. If you can tell them about any debt you have or if they can openly tell you about their financial issues, then you two are already sharing major things in each other’s lives.
8: It’s annoying as heck when you just want to snuggle up on the couch and have a kiss while watching a movie, but you can’t because of a roommate or even worse, parents!
9: You only watch certain TV shows together. Ok I know this one sounds silly, but a great sign that you two should be living together is when you find watching a show like The Big Bang Theory is nowhere near as much fun without them sitting next to you.
10: You want to be around them all the time. Well as obvious as it may seem, but if you find yourself just always wanting to be with them, then ask yourself the big question. Why are we not living together? If you love him and they love you and you hate being apart then why not give living together a try?