Being in a bad relationship is horrible and chances are many of your friends and family will realize that you are in a bad relationship way before you do, but they do not want to interfere. In many cases you will be the last person to realize that you are in a bad relationship, but if you have some feelings that the relationship you are in is not quite right, then please read on to see what are some signs that your relationship needs to come to an end in order for you to be truly happy.
You Do Not Tell Others The Way You Are Treated
Even those of us in a good relationship like to complain from time to time about our significant others. It’s just something we do. But if you find yourself actively avoiding telling people the way you are spoken to or the things that they do to you, then deep down you know that things are not good. You are not telling people because you do not want to hear the truth that you are being treated badly and that you should end the relationship.
They Want To Change You
It can be things like changing your hair, the way you dress and even more extremes like changing the way you act and behave. If you are in a relationship where the person does not love you for who you are and instead is trying to make you into what they want, then run for the hills. These types of relationships never work out. If you cannot be who you really are then the relationship is one that is going to make you feel bad about yourself,f so get out as soon as possible and find someone who loves you for who you are.
They Do Not Trust You
If your partner is always calling you to see where you are, who you are with and what you are doing, then this s a very bad sign. Also if they are doing things like checking your text messages and emails, then there are clearly some deep issues going on here. Likewise if you tell them you have been somewhere and the first thing they do is accuse you of lying, then there is no trust at all in the relationship. Without trust the relationship cannot exist, things will just get worse and worse and you need to do the right thing for yourself and get out.
They Always Put You Down
Talking down to you, making fun of your opinions, calls you names or the way you look is not something anyone should have to go through. Many of these types of relationships will even see a partner make fun of you in front of others. This is the kind of relationship you want to end right away. It does not actually matter if they do this in private or public, either way this is something you do not have to put up with.
You Are Not Equals
Do you always feel like you have to ask their permission before you do something? Are they the ones who make all the decisions in the relationship from trivial things like where to go to dinner to major things like financial decisions? A relationship is all about being equals giving and taking, if you are doing all the giving and they are doing all the taking, then why would you want to be in a relationship like this? If they do not see you as an equal now, then chances are they never will.
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